<b>SEEKING SECOND OPINIONS</b> 

Seeking a second opinion is not taboo or something to be embarrassed about. In fact, seeking a second opinion is quite common among healthcare consumers and most oncologists welcome colleagues' opinions. By seeking a second opinion, a diagnosis will often be confirmed and you may gain greater understanding of your diagnosis and treatment options. Because sarcomas are very rare and difficult to diagnose, seeking a second opinion from a sarcoma specialist is invaluable. Many oncologists routinely send pathology slides to another pathologist to confirm the diagnosis, especially with rare cancers. Ask your oncologist if this has been done. Fine differences in a diagnosis can have major implications for prognosis and treatment options. In some instances third opinions may be necessary. In addition to seeking a second opinion for diagnosis and treatment information, a second opinion may be warranted if you are having difficulty creating a positive working relationship with your oncologist. Personality conflicts do occur between patients and physicians and staying in a difficult relationship may only hinder care. Like all humans, physicians have varying levels of communication skills and one oncologist may be much more therapeutic than another. Remember that you are not stuck and you do not have to stay in a relationship that is not right for you. Having cancer is tough enough; having a difficult relationship with your physician is an additional strain that you do not need. 